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How To Talk To Women Without Overthinking!

Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. At least this is what we have been told.

There was a book written with that title awhile back and to me, it served to create the illusion that men and women are polar opposites in terms of species and have little hope of ever really understanding each other.

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What this author did not realize is that men as individuals are very different from each other. You cannot start an argument with “Men are all ……” and not look ignorant, because all men aren’t anything.

The same is true with women. Not all women are alike. What makes each person wonderful is that they are individuals. They each have their own loves and hates, hopes and dreams.

I know this looks hopeless. If all women are different individuals with different tastes and ideas, how in the name of all things Holy can you learn to talk to each and every one of them? Fear not! What I am about to share with you is a secret. It is the secret of how to talk to anyone no matter who they are and to build interest and ultimately love with them.

1. Look past the façade and see the real person beneath it.

Underneath the clothing of skin and bones, we are perfect people. We have crappy baggage and things in our past that haunt us but these things are not us and we know that.

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No one likes to be reminded of the bad parts of themselves or their painful past. What we are most proud of is who we are innately. We are most proud of the perfect person underneath. When you talk to a woman (or a man or a child) look for the perfect person and talk to him or her.

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In some people it is easier to see this perfect person than in others, and in some it is so hidden by strange pseudo personalities and other weird baggage that it is almost absent. If the person you are talking to makes it too hard to access that perfect person underneath, move on. Find someone who doesn’t have as much baggage. And whatever you do, don’t waste your time talking to pseudo personalities. They just aren’t worth it.

2. Take the time to build common ground and understanding.

Practice this skill. Go to the supermarket or somewhere where you will have to interact with people. When you get to the check out, find something you like about the checkout person.

I find that women love jewelry and take time and effort to choose and wear pieces that look nice. If you find a piece of jewelry on them and you comment favorably to them about it, you will be met with the person looking up and seeing you and not some nameless, faceless person. They will automatically start feeling a little better about you.

3. Let the person talk about herself.

This is the easy part. You don’t have to be dazzling or brilliant. All you have to be is a good listener and respond with things that are pertinent to the subject at hand. It really is a piece of cake.

For example, you have just commented favorably on a piece of jewelry (or a sweater or scarf) and the conversation has started. Generally they will tell you a little bit about the piece. “Oh, my mom bought it for me for my birthday!’ You then smile and say “What a great mom you have!” or something that you know she will agree with.

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Resist with all your might the impulse to start talking about yourself. This conversation is all about her. If you keep this up each time you go through the checkout line, you will find that soon you are friends. From there an invitation for coffee is a perfect next step to get to know each other better.

4. Avoid subjects on which you do not agree.

There is no quicker way to make someone hate your guts than to take an opposing viewpoint to theirs and then try to convince them that they are wrong. Let’s say your adorable check out person has accepted your invite for coffee! Yay! This is a big step. Don’t blow it now by trying to impress her with how smart, big, or strong you are, and how dumb, weak, and misguided she is. If you do this, this will be your last date and you will have no one to blame but yourself. Instead find things that you agree on.

If you disagree on politics, avoid that subject like a five day old burrito stub that you have just dug up from under the sofa because your negative comments on the subject will be just about as welcome. Stick to the things you wholeheartedly agree on and you will be fine.

5. Don’t violate her personal space.

Your adorable clerk is a woman. She has had her share of guys trying to cosy up to her and get close. Respect her by giving her space. Trying to move in too close when she is not ready for that is a violation of her limits. To her this may mean that if you violate limits now, who knows what limits will be violated when she allows you into her world?

6. Get your personal hygiene handled!

Brush your teeth and comb your hair. Don’t stink at all! I know I shouldn’t have to say this but sometimes people don’t know they stink. Make sure you don’t! If you just had coffee and a cigarette, chew some gum or something!

Check your teeth and make sure you don’t have anything stuck in them. Don’t look all rumpled unless it is sexy rumpled. Pay a little attention to your wardrobe. Look clean and don’t wear old threadbare clothes. No one will respect you if you don’t respect yourself and your outward appearance is an indicator of your respect level for yourself.

Don’t worry if you are a little overweigh or feel you are too short or have any other personal attribute that bothers you. Most people don’t even notice these things. If they do and do not want to talk to you because of them, they are not worth it anyway. Move on! There are many wonderful ladies out there who are looking for a caring and nice person like you.

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7. What about gifts?

Most people love gifts but there are times when gifts are unwelcome. Let’s say you and your beautiful clerk are now having dinner together this evening. It is perfectly appropriate to give her flowers but don’t give her flowers, chocolate in a heart shaped box and a new car.

She does not want to be put under an obligation and too many gifts make her feel that she now has to do something for you. While this may sound great, it feels awful. Have you ever shown up at work and forgotten that it was pot luck day and you brought nothing? How did you feel? Did you go around telling everyone that you forgot it was pot luck day and then ate only chips? Did you sneak out the back and give the whole thing a miss because the obligation was just too much? Do you see what I mean?

If you want to impress her, wash and clean your car. Ask her what kind of movie she likes or what she likes to eat and make reservations at a restaurant you know she will love. Take time to create an evening that she will find magical. What will impress her is the care you took and the respect you had for her to take that time.

8. Choose wisely!

Remember! Not all women are desirable just because they are women or because they are pretty. A pretty snake can still kill you and a woman who is negative, antagonistic, or passive aggressive (also referred to as covertly hostile) will make your life, and the life of any children you may have, miserable.

Think ahead before getting serious. If you find that your future girlfriend is one of these types, give her a hearty “So long, farewell, auf wiedershen and don’t let the screen door hit you in the ass on the way out!”

A warm and loving woman with a twinkle in her eye and a sense of humor is far more desirable than a pretty psycho. Beauty can fade over time when it is only on the surface. Real beauty that you see when you see the perfect person underneath is forever. Life is a tough game and only someone who has integrity, compassion and commitment will be there for you when you really need her.

The others, if they are self centered or psycho will be long gone the minute you need a friend the most.

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9. Recognize when she is not interested and move on.

Let’s face it, even though you are wonderful, dazzling and brilliant, you may not be someone’s cup of cherries or bowl of tea as far as future boyfriend material is concerned. It happens. If it is clear that she does not want a relationship, then ok. You are not wrong and neither is she. Perhaps you can be friends. One can never have too many nice people in one’s life.

There you have it! The important information on how to talk to anyone. Now go forth young Jedi warrior and use your power for good. I expect an invite to your wedding or at least send me a slice of the wedding cake!

How do you talk to a girl you are interested in?

You see her across the room, but you can't get up the gumption to say anything because you just don't know how to talk to a girl you like.

Don't feel ashamed. That's a problem plenty of guys struggle with. Not knowing how to talk to girls is one of the main reasons it can be so hard to figure out how to get a girlfriend.

While it may not feel like it when you see another opportunity pass you by, it's actually fairly easy to get past this problem.

If you just follow the right steps, you'll be able to solve how to talk to a girl you like, and what's more, you'll figure out how to make her want to talk to you too.

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#5 Invoke Pop Culture

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If you feel you have no confidence to talk to a girl then bringing up current pop culture is an easy way to kick things off. Comment or joke about something she’s probably familiar with.

Recent streaming service shows, pop music and reality TV shenanigans are all safe bets. Just remember to keep it lighthearted — avoid politics, and don't bring up a pop culture event you feel negatively about.

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If you hated the most recent season of Game of Thrones then don't bring it up until you know your date a little better. Starting things off a conversation on a sour note will cast a negative shadow over the rest of your conversation.

Just think, it would be super awkward if you say you hated a movie or show and find out she actually loved it.

#6 Ask About Her Favorite Movie or TV Show

This conversation starter is tangentially related to the pop culture tip, but it’s more specific. Practically everyone loves movies or has a favorite Netflix series.

When it comes to talking to women, start by sharing your personal favorite and then ask her about hers. “Lately I have been addicted to Money Heist – do you have a favorite Netflix series?” A woman’s favorite movie or series says a lot about her. It can hint at whether or not you two have compatible interests.

If you two end up arranging to see a movie or binge-watch a series on a second or third date, you’ll already have an idea of what shows she might like!

#7 Ask About Her Passions

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The idea of carrying a conversation all by yourself probably feels intimidating if you're shy or introverted. An easy, subtle way to shift the focus of the conversation to your partner is to ask her what she’s passionate about.

You don't have to straight-up ask her “What are your passions?” Try asking her what she likes to do in her free time instead.

Start off by sharing something you like to do, and then ask her to pipe in. For example: “You know, I’ve been trying to learn Spanish lately. A friend of mine showed me a really cool app called Duolingo, it’s way more fun than 8th grade Spanish! What do you like to do in your free time?”

Knowing their talents and interests also gives you a great opportunity to compliment a woman without mentioning their appearance. It's a classy move and immediately separates you from other men.

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#8 Avoid Mansplaining

What woman doesn't love a whip-smart man? Talking to a woman knowledgeably and articulately makes you very attractive in a first conversation.

There's a critical caveat though — acting too knowledgeable can be a turnoff. You may have heard of the term ‘mansplaining'. It essentially describes a situation where a man grossly underestimates a woman’s intelligence by explaining things she clearly already knows.

The solution? Career and personal coach Marty Nemko, Ph.D. says you can “mitigate the risk of seeming hubristic by keeping your comments brief and perhaps by softening the impact, for example, by ending with, ‘Just a thought. What do you think?”

Doing this gives your date or partner the opportunity to share her expertise and offer her opinions. You're not making her feel steamrolled by your knowledge.

#9 Don't Talk About Your Ex

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A man who rants about his ex does not know how to talk to women.

Especially if you’re on a first date, bringing up past relationships is an instant conversation killer. It sounds obvious but you’d be surprised how easy it is to accidentally mention exes.

Remember that your date isn't your psychiatrist. Don't unload your emotional baggage on her.

When you bring up your most recent ex, no matter what your motive, your date is going to decide you’re more interested in your ex than her.

How to talk to women? Even if your last relationship ended on a sour note, try to focus on the potential for a new and happier relationship. Don't give in to the temptation to dig up old beef.

#10 Pay Attention

Sending the first message to a woman you've met online can feel incredibly daunting – even if you’ve matched with each other. Even after you shoot your best shot, the woman can often leave you hanging and never bother to reply.

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Increase your chances of starting a real conversation by taking the time to check out her photos and bio. See if you share a similar hobby, taste in music or favorite hangout spot.

Be more attractive to women by showing you're attentive and observant. It's as easy as starting a conversation using something you saw on her profile. It tells her you’re not sending the same message to every single woman you match with.

#11 Ask To Be Introduced

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If you see an interesting woman at a mutual friend’s party, ask your mutual friend to tell you a few things about her then ask your friend to introduce the two of you.

Use the tidbits of information you get beforehand to start a natural conversation: “So I hear you like skiing, what’s your favorite resort?” or “You’re a Florida State grad? Did you ever get tired of all the sunshine?”

#12 Don't Be Afraid Of The Mundane

Make talking to a woman much easier by leveraging your immediate surroundings. It's something you both have in common.

Bringing up seemingly mundane topics like a band or special drinks menu is a good conversation starter with a girl.

When talking to women, say something positive followed by a question like:

“This is such a cool wine bar, have you been here before?”

“Any recommendations?”

“I remember when this was just a parking lot, they really turned it around, I love the atmosphere!”

“Have you tried any of their appetizers? I’m having a tough time deciding, they all look so good!”

#13 Scan The Room

Before you even talk with a woman, you want to watch how she enters the room.

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Does she come in and go straight to your table or does she pause and look around? What is going unsaid is she's either giving you 100% of her focus or she's looking over other men.

Use this to get a sense of where she sees your relationship. If she is not giving you 100% of her attention, take things slow but make sure she knows you are interested in her.

#14 Approach Her From The Right Direction

If you take anything from this article it should be to never approach a woman from behind. This can be scary and is the worst thing you can do when approaching.

The best way to approach a woman is actually from the side or the front. If you approach from the front though, move to her side afterward. Standing directly in front comes off as aggressive. Talking to her from an angle is going to be your best bet.

#15 Use The Right Conversation Angle

Imagine you’re talking to a woman at an angle. She’s leaning over, she’s speaking with you. Focus on having a normal conversation. While you're talking, the goal of the conversation should be to have her start facing you – for her to choose to actually have that face-to-face interaction and create romantic chemistry.

Ask yourself where her feet are pointed. If her torso is facing you but her feet are pointed in a different direction, it could be that she wants to get out of here. Pay attention to this and give her the opportunity if need be to leave.

BONUS TIP: Talk To Women Intimately

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A seemingly innocent work conversation but well within each other's personal space.

Let me end this by talking about intimate space and touching. What is normal personal space? Imagine stretching your arms out. This is your personal, intimate space. My wife and kids are allowed to enter this space and I’m usually expecting a hug when they get this close to me.

So, if you enter a woman's intimate space and she doesn’t reciprocate by touching you – or if she backs up – that's a bad sign. She's signaling you’ve moved too quickly and you need to (maybe literally!) step back, respect her boundaries.

Now how to talk to women and the size of intimate spaces changes from culture to culture. Many people in Hong Kong think it’s okay to talk closely to each other. If you're in central US where I’m from though, people give each other plenty of space.

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What about touching? A woman touching your elbow, back, shoulders, all of these are great indicators.

We all feel much closer to people that we have actually touched. This is why I advocate guys wearing textured clothes like cashmere sweaters and tweed sports jackets. People naturally want to reach out and touch it!

How To Talk To Women – Summary

Knowing how to talk to women can seem tough. You might be afraid of rejection or coming off the wrong way. Talking to women isn't rocket science though.

It comes down to confidence and practice. Remember, the worse she can do is say no.

How do you start a conversation with a woman?

Having a conversation with a cute girl you like can give you the jitters. You want to impress her by projecting the best version of you, but you are confused about how you should go about it. It’s natural to feel the pressure while approaching or messaging her.

Thoughts such as, “How do I start the conversation?” or “What if I say something wrong?” could run through your mind, making you nervous and conscious. To impress her, you need to be equipped with some right techniques and confidence. In this post, we tell you some simple ways to start a conversation with a girl—in person, over a text, and online.

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Tips To Start A Face-To-Face Conversation With A Girl

Starting a face-to-face conversation with a girl can sometimes be intimidating. Knowing what to say will help you relax. Here are some ways to make a great impression.

1. Compliment her

Women love being complimented. Be sincere and courteous in your compliments and draw the line. Salacious or strong remarks might backfire.

Compliment her smile or her eyes and tell her she is beautiful. You can talk about her attire and be respectful. Say something, such as “The dress looks amazing on you” or “That’s a lovely dress!” Keep it short, impactful, and genuine, and do not go overboard. The idea is to make a good impression. Too many compliments might make you come across as creepy, needy, or insincere.

2. Greet her

You don’t always have to use a corny pick-up line to approach a girl you like. Sometimes, a simple ‘Hi” goes a long way. Put on your best smile and greet her warmly with a simple “Hello.” Work on your body language and be open, relaxed, and confident.

Do not forget to make eye contact and be attentive while greeting. Maintain a respectable distance and do not intrude on her personal space. Observe her reaction while deciding your next approach. If she seems uninterested, step back.

3. Introduce yourself to her

When you meet someone new, it is good to tell them about yourself and get them interested. Start the conversation by telling her your name, and if she looks at you with interest you can continue to say something about your profession or interests. Sharing why you approached her might intrigue her too.

You can use a funny anecdote to make your introduction livelier. Keep it short and sweet. If you talk too much about yourself, she will probably feel you are too self-absorbed. While talking about yourself, notice her body language. If she smiles or appears to listen intently, then the conversation is probably going well but be sure to ask her questions as a follow-up.

4. Refer to a common thing that connects

Starting a conversation by talking about something common between the two of you helps establish an instant connection. If you are at a party, you could say, “It’s a nice party, right?” or “Do you know the host?” and take it from there based on the response. If you have met through mutual friends, you can ask her how she knows that mutual friend. While initiating conversation, be casual but show interest.

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5. Use a pick-up line

A pick-up line can be a great way to break the ice. Pick-up lines can be corny, but you will score a brownie point if they make her smile or laugh. Body language, delivery, and the content of the line matter. If your posture is relaxed, your eyes twinkle with amusement, and the delivery is confident, you can make a great impression. As for the content, consider the setting, the mood, and your intention.

You could try something subtle, such as, “My friends think angels are a myth. Can you please meet them and prove them wrong?” or a romantic pick-up line, such as, “I thought my day couldn’t get any better, but then I saw you and realized I may have just met the woman of my dreams.”

6. Ask her about her interests

Asking someone about their likes and interests can help you build a rapport and keep the conversation flowing. You can be indirect if you don’t want to seem too forward. If you see her enjoying a song in the club, you could say, “I love this song!” “Do you like it too?” If she replies affirmatively, you can follow this up with the question, “Did you listen to the new single by this singer? It’s groovy too!”

You can use the direct approach as well. It’s good to stick to neutral topics in the beginning. Refrain from asking personal questions. Ask her about the movie she recently enjoyed, the TV show she binges on, and the type of food she likes. When she starts talking, pay attention and repeat some of what you hear. Girls like guys who are good listeners.

7. Enquire about her day

Asking her about her day can be a good conversation starter. Be gentle and kind when you pose the question. You could ask, “Hey, how was your day?” If she gives a one-word answer, prompt her further by asking, “What did you do today?”

Let her know you genuinely want to know her. Your politeness may prompt her to open up. If she seems unhappy with her day, cheer her up by telling her a funny or embarrassing thing about your day.

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8. Request for her guidance

Asking her for a suggestion or help can be a good way to break the ice if you are nervous about approaching her directly. If you work at the same office, you may ask for her guidance in a particular project. In college, you could approach her for notes or ask for study tips. If you meet at a party, start by asking her for directions or feedback on the food or drink.

Tips To Start A Conversation With A Girl On Text

Right techniques can help you have long text conversations with the girl you like, even if you are shy or reticent. Here are some easy ways to initiate a talk.

9. Send her a sweet good morning text

Sending her a sweet good morning text is a great way to occupy her thoughts. You could text a short and impactful message like, “Hey, was thinking about you so thought to check in with you. Have a great day!” or compliment her by saying, “Talking to you makes my morning coffee more refreshing and sweeter. Good morning!” Send the message and wait for her reply. Don’t bombard her with texts if she doesn’t reply.

10. Share a flirty message

Sending a flirty text could work well if you have known her for quite some time. Some light-hearted flirting can be a mood uplifter and adds spice to any conversation. If she flirts back, you can even ask her out for a cup of coffee! You could say, “Every time I think about you, a smile lights up my face.”

You can also playfully tease her a little by saying, “You were in my dream last night. Did you miss me that much?” or “I adore everything about your beautiful laughter, even the cute little snort you make.” End the text with a smiley face to reinforce the fact that you are just teasing.

11. Talk about a future event

It is a simple way to start the conversation with a girl who has recently shared her number with you. It would be an ice breaker, and you wouldn’t come across as creepy or desperate. You can start with a question or a statement. If a mutual friend’s party is coming up, you could ask, “Hey are you coming for the party tonight?” or you could say, “Hope to see you at the party tonight.”

If you are in college and a test is coming up, you can start the conversation by saying, “All set for the test tomorrow? I am super anxious about it.” You can also start the conversation by talking about an upcoming holiday, for example, “Hey, it is Christmas next week. I am very excited. What are your plans?”

12. Share something that she enjoys

A relatable meme or a cute photo is a great way to lift someone’s spirits and get the conversation flowing. If it’s a funny meme, you can share it with a message, “Hilarious, isn’t it?” If it is a video that you think she would find adorable, text her, “This made me think of you” with a smiley face.

She may appreciate you for lifting her spirits and making her laugh. But be careful not to load her phone with too many messages, or she might start ignoring them.

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13. Request recommendations

Asking her opinion is not only a fantastic conversation starter but also sends a message that you value her opinions. It is also a great way to know her views and choices. You can ask for her recommendations about various things. For example, you can text, “Hey, thinking about watching a new show/movie, any suggestions?”

If you are a foodie, it would be a great idea to know her food preferences. You can bring up the topic by texting, “Was planning to eat out today; any restaurant recommendations?” If she loves food too, she would happily recommend several places. In case the conversation continues positively, you can even ask her to join you.

14. Ask stimulating questions

Posing interesting open-ended questions can help you know each other well and keep the conversation alive. Questions such as, “What is the weirdest thing you have done?” would result in tons of stories exchanged back and forth. Hypothetical questions, such as, “If you were given one superpower for a day, which one would you choose and what would you do?” can also keep things interesting.

You can also go for this-or-that questions. For example, “Pizza or pasta?” “Friends or The Office?” “Mountains or beach?” You can cover a wide range of topics with this and uncover plenty of things about one another. Avoid yes or no questions as they can end a conversation quickly.

15. Share random but interesting stuff

Sometimes, random but exciting things can change the mood, leading to a great conversation. Choose facts that suit the time, occasion, or her personality. You can add a question related to the fact. For instance, if it is time for her coffee, you could send her this: “Did you know coffee helps you live longer? How many cups do you have in a day?”

You can state a fun fact about music. For example, “Did you know that the kind of music you listen to impacts the way you perceive the world? What are you currently listening to?” And, the conversation can go on.

16. Create suspense

Texts that create mystery can be a great way to intrigue her, and she may reply faster. The key to such texts is the amount of information shared. You can go for texts such as, “Hey, today, the most amazing thing happened.”

Using the topic of her interest and creating suspense would make her excited. For instance, text her saying, “Hey, I was watching “Stranger Things” as per your recommendation, and I have a crazy theory. I can’t wait to share it with you.” If you go to the same college, you can use that reference to create a mystery. For example, “You wouldn’t believe what Professor Jones did in class today.” The right amount of mystery can entice her into a conversation.

Tips To Start A Conversation With A Girl Online

Girls could be cautious while having an online conversation because of the unpleasant experiences they usually face. With the right approach, you can please her and let her guard down. Here are some ways to start an online conversation with the girl you like.

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17. Be quirky

Showing your sense of humor and quirkiness can get you noticed faster and make a great impression. Send a quirky message with a question or try to keep the message unique and light. Avoid anything offensive, and do not go overboard with the humor.

You can say, “Hey, fellow Game of Thrones fan, I think Lord Baelish is smarter than Lord Tyrion. What is your opinion?” If she is wearing a t-shirt in her profile picture, you can go with, “Hey, I have the same t-shirt you are wearing in your profile picture. Are you sure you didn’t steal mine?” Go with something silly which could make her smile, “Hey, your cat is so adorable! My cat is mesmerized and would like you to share her number?”

18. Take her profile’s help

Check the bio or description of her social media handles to get cues on how to start the conversation. If she has mentioned she is a book lover, you can start by saying, “Hey, I see that you are a bibliophile. Which is the last book that you found interesting? I loved “A Man Called Ove.”

Suppose she mentioned that she likes a particular show, you can text, “Hey, your profile says you love Friends; I love it too. Who is your favorite character?” If she is an avid traveler, you can write, “I am pleased to come across a fellow globetrotter. Where was your last trip?”

19. Drop the name of your mutual friend

If you find mutual friends on social media, you can use their names to kickstart a conversation. It will help establish a better connection as she would give you a better chance than a random guy with no common friends. You can say things such as, “Hey, I came across your profile and saw that we both know Matt. He is my college buddy. How do you know him?”

20. Use the posts she shared

Her posts can tell you many things about her personality. You can use them to break the ice and connect with her online. If she has shared cute dog videos, you can start the conversation by referring to the dog you own or expressing your love for dogs. For example, “Hey, the dog video you shared is adorable. It reminds me of my lovely lab, Leo. Which dog do you have?” If she shares a cake recipe, you can ping her online, “Hello, that cake recipe you shared looks delicious. I wish to give it a shot. Any tips before I start?”

21. Aks her permission

Asking for permission before starting a full-fledged conversation online shows that you are considerate and polite. She wouldn’t consider you a threat and might give you a chance. You can start by telling her why you thought about messaging her and then proceed to ask for her consent. For example, “Hi, I came across your profile and found it very interesting. We have similar interests. Do you mind if we chat for a while?” You can also go with, “You seem like a really cool person. Are you free to chat for some time?”

Approaching the girl you like becomes easy when you know the right techniques. You don’t need to have a gift of gab to pull them off. Some practice, self-assurance, and a bit of charm can help you have a smooth and exciting conversation with the girl you like. Keep in mind that a conversation is a two-way street, so understand her responses and tailor your conversation accordingly.

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