Things NOT to Say to a Girl You Like
A lot of women like to hear how you feel about them, and they like to hear it frequently.
It’s not that we’re insecure or needy; it’s just the only way we really know for sure.
Yes, actions sometimes speak louder than words, but words can also speak volumes on their own.
If she asks you regularly how you feel about her, she probably feels like you aren’t telling her enough.
Maybe you’re trying to in your own way, but you don’t truthfully know what she needs.
Verbalizing feelings isn’t something that comes naturally to most men. It’s actually kind of a foreign concept.
Men don’t need the same verbal reassurances as women, so they don’t think much of it.
After all, they’ve always been taught to hide or downplay their feelings, not share them.
So, when she says you aren’t saying or doing enough, you probably feel frustrated and have no idea what she means.
It might take some time to open up and learn how to put those feelings into the words she so desperately needs to hear.
The truth is, when we ask how you feel, we don’t mean just saying the words ‘I love you.’
Of course, it means a lot to hear those words, and we don’t ever want you to stop saying them.
We just crave something a little deeper. Women thrive off of emotional, heart to heart talks.
There’s not much that would make us happier.
So to all the men out there looking for a little guidance, I’m going to let you in on this little secret.
There are a few things all women love to hear that go above and beyond those three words.
If you can tell her these things, she’ll never complain again:
1. Tell us how much we mean to you.
Don’t just say the words, tell us why. The more you elaborate the better.
What specifically makes you love us? How strongly do you feel? Do we make you feel like you’ve never felt before?
2. Tell us how you feel when you’re around us.
Does your heart speed up a little when we’re near? Or maybe you get anxious at the thought of seeing us?
Do you just look at us and smile when we’re snuggling on the couch because of how you feel in that moment? Whatever you feel, we want to know.
3. Tell us we’re beautiful.
Don’t just say we look hot or sexy, although sometimes that’s good too.
Make us feel like we’re the most gorgeous woman you’ve ever laid eyes on even when we’re in our sweats with no makeup.
Tell us how great we look or what you find the most attractive about us…and not just when you want sex.
4. Tell us we’re special.
Treat us differently than you do everyone else.
Is there something specific we do that you just find adorable? What made you fall in love with us in the first place? Why did you choose us when you could have had anyone else?
Make us feel like we’re the only girl in the world who’s ever mattered.
5. Tell us you miss us.
Do you wish we were there with you? Do you feel like something is missing when we’re apart?
Do you want us to be the first person you share things with, good or bad? Tell us.
6. Tell us we’re a priority.
We don’t want to feel like an afterthought. Go out of your way to make us feel like the first and most important thing on your mind.
There is absolutely nothing better than waking up to a “good morning beautiful.??
What we need most from you is open communication. I can’t express that enough.
If you feel something, say it. Say it sincerely and say it often.
Don’t ever give us the chance to question it.
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